♥ Saturday, 27 October 2007 ♥
hi ppl!! i hve a story to share.. i find it quite interestin n sad.. i dunno hw will u guys feel aft readin it.. here it goes~~
.....My mom only had one eye. I hated her... she was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students & teachers to support the family. There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say 'hello' to me. I was so embarrassed! How could she do this to me?! I ignored her, threw her a hateful-look and ran out. The next day at school, one of my classmates said, "EEEE, your mom only has one eye!" I wanted to bury myself! I also wanted my mom to just disappear! I confronted her that day and said, "If you're only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?!" My mom did not respond... I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings. I walked out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts. Then one day, my mother came to visit me. She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren. When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited. I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children! GET OUT OF HERE NOW!!!" And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight. One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip. After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity. My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tears. They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have. "My dearest son, I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and scared your children. I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you. I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up. You see........ when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost one of your eyes. As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with one eye. So I gave you mine. I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. With all my love to you, Your mother."....
Always tell someone that you love them because you never know what day will be their last, or your own. Always seek to resolve your problems or disagreements with loved ones because if either of you should passon before, the one who is left alive will have the rest of their life to ponder those unresolved feelings but will never find closure. And closure usually brings peace... Treat her the right way you should..
perfection,2:58 pm
♥ Friday, 26 October 2007 ♥
hi guys.. hmm.. so broin durin dis few wks.. really veri bored man.. cnt go out.. nt even downstair.. unless there is a valid reason... my grandma den allow me to go out.. haiz.. but anway.. durin the borin days.. at least i still get a chance to celebrate my b'day wif my grandma, aunty jenny, sabby, shurong, guan lin & xiao feng.. they actually gve me a surprise.. nt mention abt the celebration.. i only notice tat sabby made lots of jelly on the nite b4 the celebration.. den the nxt day morin.. i woke up n i notice tat she is bz makin potato salad n my grandma is bz marinatin lots of chicken wing.. i was tinkin.. hmm... hw come.. i ask sabby hw come u aguys preparin to much tins? she told me tat my grandma's fren named dunno wat 'zhu' de is comin on the evenin time.. den i was like.. ok.. but do my grandma really need to prepare so many food juz to welcome her fren? but anyway.. i oso didn tink much.. so durin the evenin time whn aunty jenny n xiao feng reach my grandma place.. i was so.. surprise.. though the celebration is veri veri simple.. but really appreciate it.. they took bus frm AMK to Tampines juz to celebrate b'day for me.. and the journey is abt 2 - 3 hrs.. tat include waitin of the bus n dis n tat la.. really appreciate it.. Thx to Sabby n they all!! they bought me a cake. which is nw u all will get a chance to look at it later.. dun look good.. coz i guess the cake is bein shifted abit out of the plate.. guess durin the journey either aunty jenny or xiao feng accidentally swing it.. coz tat day is rainin quite heavily but anyway it taste really great!! n there's sum pics of nicky n gracia.. noe u ppl been missin nicky n gracia so much.. so i upload sum pics of them.. to keep u guys update.. here it goes~~
my 22nd b'day cake!!
my mummy!! look like kopitiam ah soh rite!! LOL!!
but will look funny la...
coz nvr seen a kopitiam ah soh wearin a
shower cap to serve customer!!
my fat boy riddin on his father's back!
naked shot 1!
naked shot 2!
naked shot 3! (dun u guys agree wif me?! isn't he fat?!)
see my nicky holdin on to a "gun"
Look at hime!! so shy!! LOL
my cute little boy!!
surprise!!
mature boy!!
my sweet little bunny boy!!
*ATTENTION*The pictures below will make you fall in love with her.
Please control ur emotions and feelings.
Thank you!
my precious gal, gracia!
who does she look more alike? mummy or daddy?
aft finish feedin her..
look at her?! cryin so bitterly for the mummy!
(coz she's hungry.. )
look at her big eyes!!
Last pic.. though it has nth to do wif my baby gracia.. but is oso 1 of my fav...
my fav pet, BoBo..
passed away on Jan..
died of unknown reason
perfection,2:33 am
♥ Tuesday, 16 October 2007 ♥
hi guys!! as i'v prmoise u all tat i will upload Gracia's pics... here it goes!!
tat's her info!!
Gracis is juz 1 hr n 5 min old!!
We are nt a family until Nicky join in the pic!!
Daddy n Gracia
mummy & Gracia
Hamper & the delivery man
The Card on the hamper
Msg inside the card
couldn't take pic of the hamper
coz my hubby is so eager to open up all the hamper.
so i can only took the pic of the msg.
Shi En in mummy's arm!!
Shi En smilin in her dream or in reality?
Look at her? isn't she sweet?
Kor Nicholas & Mei Gracia
Mummy, kor Nicky n Her!!
Daddy, Kor Nicky & Gracia
Happy Family!! Daddy, Mummy, Kor Nicholas & Mei Gracia
perfection,12:40 am
♥ Monday, 8 October 2007 ♥
hi guys!! long time no update my blog liao wor.. haha... finally!! my baby Shi En is out to see dis world!! receive lots of gift frm church members... frenz.. n my hubby's frenz... n my grandma gve my little girl a nick name.. called 'nu wang' haha... coz whn i gve birth to my 1st child who is nw the most popular child in church.. Nicholas.. nobody visit me or gve me gift.. haha.... den my girl... quite a number of ppl visit me n bought me gift.. . so my grandma say she is like a queen!! haha... well.. actually she is kind of tiny... she weighs 2.2kg only!! can u imagine.. so got no choice.. in order to make her grow stronger n faster.. i hve to fed her wif formula n breastfeed her... but anyway... i already decide to breastfeed her.. so cannot say no choice la... anyway.. she is doin well.. drinkin well on both milk n water but juz tat she got jaundice... n today my hubby bring her to the polyclinic.. her jaundice raise up to 204.. hopin n prayin hard tat her jaundice will disappeared by 7th day of birth.. n oso it wont reaches to 250.. so.. prayin hard hard hard.... n oso she fail her hearin test.. so i need to bring her back to KKH on 5 nov to check her hearin again... hmm.. dis gal really gve me lots of trouble.. but i believe tat wif god.. everytin will be fine!! as He got all tins in hand.. so dun really worry much ba... hmm.. stil haven uploads sum of the pics i taken of her n the gifts... will do tat once my hubby get me my USB.. miss the church so much.. nicky miss the church too... ytd i didn ask sabby to bring him to church.. n he told me tat he wan to go church to dance n sing.. i told him ovr already... he look sad.. he told me tat den other day den go hor... i say ya.... haha... didn expect him to actually rmb tat we still hve to go church... so cute of him.. n he love his sister veri much... every mornin once he wake up.. the 1st tin he do is to check his sister.. if his sister is nt ard.. he will question me.. whr is mei mei.. whr she go.. n he dun allow others to take his mei mei away... he got angry whn aunty Angeline n aunty Helen joked wif him n say.. can i bring ur mei mei hme.. neither did he ans them nor look at them.. they ask him until he say.. cannot.. he oso dun allow them to carry mei mei.. he say mummy carry mei mei.. he is so cute n lovin... den whn they are abt to leave.. they ask nicky to say byed to them.. he dun wan.. den my grandma ask him.. y dun u say bye bye wif the aunties.. izzit they wanna take ur mei mei away u angry.. he say ya... haha.. didn really expect him to love his mei mei so much.. really thx God... haha.... guess i shall stop here.. i'm tired ler.... gtg rest...........
perfection,3:35 pm
